Never let a stupid person makes you believe that you can't reach your dreaming life Hi Ladies,
It's Monday and it's time for us to rev up our motivation! How are your doing with your month challenge? I know it could be tough to stay motivated. I even experienced a setback yesterday while I was reading my neewsfeed on Facebook. A woman was claiming that "if you are a nice person, you will attract only nice person in your life" ... What the ?????? It's BS if you want me to be vulgar. If we stretch her hypothesis, it would mean that I deserve to live a crappy life because nothing really amazing happens to me recently??? Are you kidding me? No way, I am.. you are stronger and smarter than those insane psychology. You should never put an emphasis on someone's who does not share your point of view. She may even project her own insecurities on others just to hurt you on purpose. Be smarter, be wiser... Ignore them and stay focused on your goal... your monthly goal. My duty for today was about decluttering my desk, getting rid of paper and make it clean and neat. Love the result. And you? You are enjoying our month challenge. Great! Please, consider to share the post or even to subscribe to our list to become a special member of Obviously B. Community, the place to be to discover who you are, cherish yourself and reach your own potential. I'm a huge fan of the "less is more" philosophy... Today, I declutter my cherished Ipod to make it more effective Hi wonderful Ladies!
Do you know that it's already Day-29? You should be thinking "Why on heck is she writing a post today?" Well, it's pretty simple because I care about you, your dream, your amazing life and your fantastic goal (You know... the goal you've chosen yesterday. If you miss the point, click here for a little memory refresh moment) Are you ready to have fun today with our next duty? Come on an follow me to know more about. I'm not selfish, I'm focused, committed & dedicated to reach my goals and build my dreaming life. Hi my dear friend! What a treat to be there with you today, only 30 day before Summer, it's our last chance (before the next one) to reach our dreams one step at a time. I know how tough it could be to build the momentum and to move forward no matter what. Ok.. I also admit that I need to move my a..... too to make my commitment really effective. Now, let's see how we, as a team, are going to crush that final month before summer. I've got 3 tips in my bucket! First: Choose only one goal 30 day period is quite short and the worst you can do for your sanity would be to reinvent the wheel by choosing 100 goals to reach in 30 days... No way... You are a grown up, self confident woman, self conscious... [fill the blank with your amazing core values] and you are fully aware that it's better for your self esteem to reach one medium-high goal that dreaming/ "failing" at reaching 100 goals. So... please choose ONE reachable, exciting, funny, challenging goal for the next 30 day! Write it down if you need... Draw a pic of it or even enjoy to share with us in the comment section below. Here is mine: I will implement a routine that will help me to focus on my health and to sustain my journey to happiness. Second: Begin by Brainstorming I challenge you to take a pen and paper to make a list from 30 to 1. Then after each number, choose one action to do each day to move you closer to your goal. Here is mine: Day 30: I have set my alarm at 6.30 to see the sunrise I tend to add a positive, immediate reward each day to help my brain with the twist. If I see only a "Must do" and no reward, I may increase the risk to fall off the wagon. Do not scream, I know how to postpone my rewards too.... I've waited almost 5 years and worked my butt off to earn my PhD... I've saved 3 years of money to buy a gift for my mum 60th birthday... At that particular time, I know myself enough to see that I need immediate, free gratification. It puts a smile on my face and it works perfectly... like a bonus point ;) Third: Schedule it and Do it as soon as possible! I know you my fantastic wonder woman friend... You have been not finishing to read the post yet that you think about the shopping, the next appointment or how you can put a smile on someone's face. Please... for at least 30 days, take at least 30 minutes for yourself and your sanity each day! Do not postpone or delay what matters for you. You are worthy, you are capable of becoming who you want. Do not give up on your dreams because it seems too big to reach. Crush them, one bite at a time and enjoy each victory. What's Next? First, the big news. I'll be posting each day for the next 30 days to be your buddy/ sparing partner/ punching ball/ accountable partner in crime... Fill the blank or choose the one you enjoy the most.
Second, it's better to share our progress, I'd love you to tag and share that article with a friend of yours. Together we are stronger... Never underestimate the positive outcome of a trustful friendship. Third, I send you a ton of love, courage and hugs! We can do it together. I can't wait to talk with you tomorrow. Take care! My mission is to help you, my fantastic friends, to discover who you are & design your own roadmap for the next 12 months. Hi Ladies!
This is so wonderful! Thanks to your incredible support and to provide you the best of my tips, I've created and fully designed a FREE 30 day course called Cherish Yourself Academy. What is is really about? Hi Ladies, I'm so confused and sorry ... I did not give up on yourself, I just had some tough technical issues that force me to delay the launching of our product until this week. In fact, we have worked hard to solve the problems and to provide you the best customer service possible. Yet, we wouldn't have been able to launch the product last week. We have made the difficult decision to postpone the launching to provide you a better service and better protections for your purchase. Hi Ladies, How do you feel today? How was your week end? I truly hope that you had a lot of fun and, more importantly, that you've been able to assess your toxic relations in your life. You truly deserve a better quality life and I'm so glad to share what I've learned along the way. In addition, you don't have to feel guilty about your actual life because some of your past events have taken their toll on yourself. This does not mean that you have to complain about what's going on on your life, you have to take the responsibility to overcome those negative thoughts or acts to reach a higher level of serenity. One way to do it is to be fully aware of what you're made of... which means to be able to actively know what are your qualities, your positive assets and your core values. You can do it for FREE before it shuts down on Spring. I have designed a 3 part training series for you to discover those core values and then to have a secret weapon... This secret weapon is crucial for you to make a 180° change that will lead you to a happier, fuller, funnier life that you've never experienced. Do not let that opportunity going away. You deserve something more and something better.. Do not let somebody's opinions to change what you think about yourself... Most of the time those opinions are just a mirror of criticism or sarcasm... and they are not 100% clear or honest. Hi Ladies, Do you realize??? We're just 7 days before the grand launching of my first product... This means it is almost your last chance to watch the 3 FREE videos to discover your core values... I've designed these videos to be very user friendly and I know you are busy so they are short on time (15 min for the longest) We care seriously about your wellness and your wellbeing, that's why we truly encourage you to take a look at those videos and download the worksheets. You will be amazing by what you're about to find: your tailored secret weapon to feel fantastic all year long!! This is your chance... Do not give up on yourself... You are Obviously Bright ;) "Declutter your life, to live fully, authentically the life you deserve" Ophélie B. Hi Ladies, How are you today? I don't know how the weather is for you but, here, honestly, we are blessed... Spring is already there and we have a lovely temperature. I'd be happy to share it with you as well as to bring more joy and fun in your daily lives. Last week, we have talked about our month theme which is "declutter your life before Spring". This is such a major issue, that I wanted to get deeper and provide you more tips about those toxic relations This is a special message to celebrate a wonderful news!! After almost a year of sharing my experience and dealing with ups & downs, I've packed all my knowledge and my heart to design a very easy to follow process for you Ladies. I know you all are very busy and you don't have a lot of time to implement very technical strategies... So I keep it very simple, very comprehensive and I am near you at each step of the process to the discovery of your core values Because I truly care about your time and your needs, I've recorded for FREE a serie of 3 videos with FREE worksheets to download and complete. This is 100% risk free, all you have to do is follow the link and enjoy. Each video is 15 minutes long and the worksheet are so easy to fill. You will be astonished by your discovery, you will in fact discover the secret weapon to feel fantastic all year long. This is your chance to become who you are and to feel confortable in your own skin.. Take it now before it goes away. Remember that Obviously B. is your women community to discover who you are, cherish yourself and reach your own potential. Hi Ladies, This is our first post for March 2014 which means that it's time for us to embrace a new theme for the entire month AND talk you about our huge announcement... We have chosen to celebrate Spring which means also spring cleaning and decluttering.... We are going to declutter your life to reach a higher level of happiness on a daily basis. As time passing by, I've realized that it's very beneficial to declutter our environment at least one time a year. This decluttering process implies your closet, your home as well as your friendship/ relationships when these relations are toxic. How do I recognize a toxic relation? A relation in an ideal world is something that pushes you to the best... You are able to count on that person as well as she counts on you. A friendship is a positive force that leads you to become better, to give your 100% when it's tough or to take some risks when they are worth it. Yet, a relation could also become toxic when your so called friend is full of criticism, sarcasm...when this person is never near you when tough moments are coming...but you always have to be there when they have broken a nail. This is unacceptable!! A toxic relation comes from insecurity, it is built around your friendship needs and not a willingness to share a higher purpose. You can recognize a toxic relation when you assess objectively what happens between you and your so called friend. When you are used for your qualities but neglected for your needs... this is TOXIC... When you are alone to solve an issue whereas you've asked for help, this is TOXIC... When this friend is giving up on you because you are not as tall, nice, cute... this is TOXIC... You are not guilty about that situation yet you are responsible to make an end!! You deserve a better relation than that. One way to recognize that you are worth it is be fully aware of your own qualities and skills. When you are grounded into your abilities, you can make better choices for your life. But, honestly, it's not easy to be able to define our qualities, this is why we have designed and launch our first product: Discover your core values. To celebrate that launching, we are giving for FREE a eerie of 3 videos. Just follow that link Until next week, we would like to know how you've dealt with toxic relations and how you've felt after. 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